The 4 Secret Weapons Your Inner Bully Uses Against You

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In This Episode, You'll Discover:

  • The 4 secret weapons that are so powerful that virtually all bullies (internal and external bullies) rely on them 
  • These 4 weapons are deeply embedded in you and create faulty beliefs
  • How beliefs are formed, and how you can create new beliefs about yourself and your world

Action Steps: 

  • GOAL: Identify which weapons your Inner Bully uses against you and continue to master the art of transforming your Inner Bully
    • Pay attention to your Inner Bully and write down everything it tries to get you to believe
    • Next to each statement, identify which weapon or weapons your Inner Bully is using. 
  • ACTION STEP TWO:  After writing down those statements and identifying the weapons, take several deep breaths and ask yourself:
    • What story am I telling myself about this situation? 
    • Are the concerns that I’m having now valid for this particular situation, or is it my Inner Bully telling me stories from my past to keep me inside my box?
    • What do I truly want to do?
    • What can I do right now to be the Boss?
  • Spend a few minutes two times each day and use your imagination to practice being the way you want to be--over and over again. You can practice the same scenario you've practiced last week, or you can create a new scenario to practice. 
  • REMEMBER: Each time you have an emotion that you don't want to have, you can also practice neutralizing that emotion and shift yourself into a calm state by using the easy and powerful "Choosing Calm" and  "Simple Truth" techniques. 
    • ** Remember to write these down in your journal so you can track your progress.

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